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Return to the Waters: A Women’s Retreat for Grief & Reclamation


  • Harbin Hot Springs 18424 Harbin Springs Road Middletown, CA, 95461 United States (map)

A Women's Retreat of grief, voice & body reclamation held in sacred waters at Harbin Hot Springs. Ritual, rest & renewal await.

  • What happens when we grieve together — not just with our minds, but through the body and voice? What if we could reclaim the parts of ourselves we were taught to abandon — the soft, the wild, the loud, the grieving, the sovereign?

    Join us for Return to the Waters, a 3-day intimate women’s retreat held at the sacred grounds of Harbin Hot Springs — where geothermal waters, ancient trees, and the song of the land will hold us as we remember who we truly are.

    🕊 This Retreat is For You If You Are…

    • Carrying grief — of people, relationships, dreams, or versions of self

    • Ready to release shame or trauma stored in the body

    • Reclaiming your voice — literally and spiritually

    • Longing to be held in sacred sisterhood and deep witnessing

    • Seeking rest, ritual, and return to your true self

  • 💧 Retreat Offerings Include:

    • Silent waters rituals in Harbin’s sacred hot, cold, and warm pools

    • Sacred witnessing of grief, especially around the body and shame

    • Voice & breathwork practices to move emotion and reclaim sound

    • Singing as medicine to open the body and clear deep grief

    • Gentle somatic movement (morning optional sessions)

    • Journaling prompts and ritual practices for inner release

    • Dyad/ triad sharing circles to build soul-level connection

    • Optional nude soaking rituals for those reclaiming comfort in their skin

    • Sound healing journey in Harbin’s Events Center (public welcome)

    • Optional rest time, garden walks, or 1:1 sessions with Virpal (if capacity allows)

    💠 Why the Voice?

    So much grief lives beyond words. Singing — especially toning, humming, and vibrational sound — can move what the mind cannot reach. You’ll be gently guided in opening your vocal channel to soothe, release, and remember.

    You do not need to be a “singer” — just willing to explore the resonance of your own truth.

    🧘🏽‍♀️ Retreat Schedule (High-Level Flow):

    Friday evening – Soft arrival, optional soak, gentle opening circle

    Saturday – Waters ritual, grief writing, body & voice reclamation, witnessing circles, evening ritual

    Sunday – Final private closing circle, optional public sound healing, departure

    A more detailed itinerary will be emailed upon registration.

  • 📦 What to Bring:

    • Journal + pen

    • Comfortable, layered clothing for warm days and cool nights

    • Bathing suit (optional as Harbin is clothing optional and most bathe nude)

    • Towel, sarong, flip flops or pool shoes

    • Water bottle

    • A small item for the group altar (e.g. flower, photo, stone)

    • Snacks or light meals (Harbin has a café, but bringing personal nourishment is encouraged. Avoid any glass containers as these are not allowed.)

    • Eye mask or shawl for sound healing

    • Yoga mat or blanket for sitting comfortably in the Yurt

    • Any sacred items for your personal practice or rest

    • Harbin Hot Springs is substance free, including alcohol

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